Making the Decision to Euthanize Your Pet
Laurel Lagoni, M.S.
Deciding whether or not to euthanize your beloved pet can be among life's most difficult decisions. You may feel you have been asked to "play God," deciding between life and death for someone you love. Yet, you are also keenly aware that your pet is suffering or has little quality of life. It's very normal to feel confused and emotional during this decision-making process.
The following questions may help you make your decision:
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Why is it time to consider euthanasia?
-Has your pet lost his/her quality of life?
-Is your animal suffering?
-Are there behavioral problems that compromise the safety and well-being of your pet or others?
-Are there human limitations (emotional, timing, or financial) that you must consider? While it may be difficult to admit to yourself that any of these limitations may be the reason you are considering euthanasia for your pet, please know that they are among the most common reasons for euthanasia.
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Do you have all of the medical information you need to make this decision? Is there anything else that you need to know from your veterinarian?
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What do you think your pet wants? How great is the pain/discomfort? Is s/he suffering? Can s/he maintain normal routines or interactions? Does your pet have dignity?
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Do you have fears or misconceptions about the euthanasia procedure, about what will happen and what to expect? Do you have special requests for the procedure, but you're not sure you will be allowed/able to include them? If so, talk first with your veterinarian.
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What fears do you have for yourself, your children, or your family regarding this decision? What or who could help you address these fears?
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Will you be present during your pet's euthanasia? Have you and your veterinarian planned and agreed on details like:
-When and where the euthanasia takes place
-Who will be present? (Even if you prefer to be alone with your pet during this time, consider having a friend accompany you to the euthanasia site and drive you home. Grief brings a sense of shock and disorientation and you should plan for its effects on your mind and body).
-How will you care for your pet's body? If you don't know your options, discuss them with your veterinarian.
Adapted from Guidelines for Bond-Centered Practice, Argus Institute for Families and Veterinary Medicine, Colorado State University, 2001.
